FIRST DATE TIPS:

Many wonder how they came about their wives, just as many think about and rehearse over the choice of words, how they intend to face their dates and what they expect from their dates at first sight. Findings over the years have revealed that the advent of social media has affected lot of youths nowadays and they don’t know how to woo or relate with their ladies when they eventually meet. In fact, it is a great problem for many to surmount up courage and talk with ladies of their choice. Having noticed that, PUBLICFACES has come up with these dating tips for first timers.

Relax
If you’re nervous about making a good first impression and worried about whether the two of you will hit it off, then above all else, you need to relax. Remember, this is just one date and it’s just date one. Before going out, spend a few minutes (that’s all it takes) breathing to help relieve any pre-date jitters. Breathe deeply and slowly, and concentrate only on your BREATH.
Watch your body language
When you greet your date, smile. Not only will it show the other person that you’re happy to see him/her (regardless of whether or not this is a blind date), it also shows open and friendly person qualities-perfect for a date. Other things to watch out for: uncross your arms (crossing them can make you seem uninterested and unapproachable) and don’t forget to sit up straight.
HAVE SOME CONVERSATION STARTERS
Are you terrified that you and your match will sit in awkward silence over appetizers? Keep up with current events and keep a few prepared questions in mind, ready to go if you find a lag in conversation. The thing about questions, though, is that some are better than others. While it’s a decent common icebreaker,” how are you?”  Isn’t a very good way to get conversation rolling. Aim for open-ended questions, the type that requires more than a YES or NO answer and you’ll find yourselves talking about everything from work to movies to wherever the conversational winds blows.
Be a good listener
Just as important as asking open-ended question is, how you listen to your date when he or she is talking is also very important. Listening skills are more than just waiting for your turn to talk. Keeps the conversation back and forth flowing by showing interest in your date’s answers.  Pay attention to what your date is saying, but also pay attention to your own body language. Good listener has open posture as well as open ears. Drop your phone for the conversation sake and lean in as your date is speaking nod in understanding and try briefly paraphrasing your date’s answer as encouragement to keep her or him talking.
Be flirtatious
Flirting with your date not only shows your playful side but also allows you to share details about yourself in a humorous yet intimate way, making eye contact, smiling and lightly touching your date’s arm are great non-verbal cues to show attraction. Also, when we’re attracted to (or comfortable with) another person, we often unconsciously mirror the gestures and body language of that person. This matching is called mirror-image postural echoes, and when we mimic another person this way, we’re signaling that we like that person. Intentionally mirroring your date’s posture or synchronizing gestures can help  break tension and make the other person feel more relaxed around you, be sure to do this subtly, though or risk having your flirty behavior seem downright awkward.
Don’t spills all but be honest
Being honest is one of the most important things you can do to help a first date go well. Be honest about who you are and what you do, what you like, all of it. Turn your idiosyncrasies into something to highlight about yourself, rather than trying to be what you think your date will like, in the end you want him or her to like who you really are, not who you pretend to be, and that includes everything from the type of music you like to whether or not you have kids . Above all, don’t brag, just be honest.
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